The coffee-chat script that isn't creepy
Most early-career coffee-chat requests miss because they're either too vague or trying too hard. Here's the script that works — and the one that doesn't.
Read the piece →Goal setting, feedback loops, promotion paths, and what to optimize for in years 1–5.
Promotions aren’t the goal. The goal is building a track record and a network that give you options when you need them. Chase the title and you end up in whatever job has the loosest promo criteria. Chase the options and you end up somewhere you chose on purpose.
Feedback is the engine, and most people run it wrong. They wait until review season, collect a paragraph of vague praise, and walk out with nothing actionable. The version that works is smaller and more frequent: after a presentation, after a launch, after a hard conversation, ask one person you trust one specific question — “what would you have done differently?” — and actually write the answer down. Twenty of those in a year will move you further than any training program.
The five-year version of this topic is about compounding. The skills that matter most at year five aren’t the ones on the job description at year one. Writing well, running a meeting, scoping a project, managing up, giving feedback — these transfer across every role, every company, every pivot. Get slightly better at each of them every quarter and the curve gets steep fast.
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This topic maps to Chapter 9 — The long game of the book. See the full chapter →